Sunday, March 4, 2012

A Letter to My Dad (Jack Ekelchik if your curious;)


Dad

You’ve given us many gifts over the years. By far the greatest has been your never ending love.
Recently, I was going through boxes in the basement and. I came across a collection of letters I’ve kept through the years. They were from you.

The earlier ones were written on Seaboard stationary and were addressed to Ralph S. Mason, my sleep away camp. Then the letters skipped a couple of years and were addressed to Syracuse University. I usually received those on a Friday, where you’d tell me to enjoy happy hour with Shari and throw in a ten or twenty for good measure. You didn’t have to worry about us at school. We always looked out for one another. In fact, I remember our friendship blossoming at Fagan’s happy hour, so maybe that was because of you after all.

Everything in my childhood and my adult life that you’ve been involved with has brought happiness and security. As a father, I hope you realize I only have happy memories of all that we’ve done. Few people are that lucky and for that I am truly blessed.

You were my first and have remained my greatest hero. Through everything life has gifted and taken from you, your commitment to making this world a better place has never faltered. 

In short, I am thankful for every car ride we took as a family, for teaching me how to ride a bike, for every worm you placed on a hook and every line you patiently untangled, for taking me to get my ears pierced, for coaching every soccer game I ever played in, for standing on the sidelines when I ran track, for bear hugs good night, and for all the ice skates you laced, for late Sunday night projects you helped me pull off, for all of the dog shows we did together, for our Saturday mornings at work and afternoons in the city, and the too many things that literally consumed my entire childhood.

You’ve been a wonderful father in law to Nick and loving grandfather to Michael and Marielle, Mostly, I am thankful for your optimism and love of life that has made me the person that I am. For everything you’ve done and still continue to do, I love you.

Happy Birthday Dad and Grandpa,
Love,
Donna, Nick, Michael and Marielle